IT’S HERE, IT’S HERE! The Making of my first music video Bang! Bang! Filled with some of the hottest and best cheerleaders in the world, acrobats, a funny dog, and Matt Webb as a very awkward security guard, check out my directorial debut, and the project that brought me back to life! 

#ThinkAboutItThursday presents:  WHY GIRLS GOSSIP Watch all the way to the end for YOUR chance at winning some rad Jewels!

THESE. ARE. AWESOME!!!  Thank you!!!

THESE. ARE. AWESOME!!!  Thank you!!!

I PRESENT:  The Conclusion of the year long #ThinkAboutItThursday EXPERIMENT!  If you love me… you’ll wanna watch this. :)  If you HATE me and love posting how much you hate me… you’ll wanna watch this too! 

xoxo

The #ThinkAboutItThursday Experiment

ELEVEN MONTHS AGO, I STARTED AN EXPERIMENT… called #ThinkAboutItThursday.

The goal: If you’re going to be bold enough to teach people something, you better be bold enough to live it.   

So, we set out, on purpose, to create posts and videos that would make people think in a different way, stir up emotions, and mix my naturally positive and silly self with videos and posts on sensitive topics, all with the goal of helping people, and understanding what people being bullied REALLY go through.

The experiment is over… and the results will SHOCK you. 

Stay tuned for the reveal of the #ThinkAboutItThursday experiment, coming soon… who knows, your posts and comments might even be included in it. ;) 

ONE OF OUR LOGS: 

To me, the craziest part of the #ThinkAboutItThursday bully experiment was seeing people create hashtags, copy our logo and merch, and morning greeting just to be mean. It was shocking. That’s a lot of effort to be mean. 

The same people even went out of their way to TRY and create a following of people who didn’t like the videos, had their friends tweet us catty posts, encouraged cattiness and division among women when they had the ability to stop it, and even when we wrote to them to see if we could all be friends, worked harder at teaming up bullies, and encouraging it. 

This stuff happens at schools, at work, even at churches, and we are glad it happened to us through the experiment. 

We’d be lying if we said it didn’t suck sometimes. It hurt our hearts to see people welcoming girls who were bullying someone else, and encouraging mean girl activities by having teens tweet hashtags created for the sole purpose of mocking someone. It was really sad, annnnnnnd made us want to shake em. …but we didn’t. ;) 

THE LESSON: 
The people who did these things wanted to be popular, more than they wanted to do the right thing. They wanted attention and followers no matter how they got them. 

Now hasn’t that happened to all of us at one point or another? We go along with something we KNOW isn’t the nicest or best because other people are doing it and it’s better to be part of a group then not? Well, I’m here to tell ya it’s a cop out. When you see people being mean to someone, because they don’t like the way they look, something they said, something they posted, their religion, whatever… it is your JOB to help it stop. 

Tell your friend to ignore that blog they don’t like instead of ranting on Tumblr, not to tweet that girl they disagree with, block and delete that person bullying them and not react, and DO NOT PARTICIPATE at all with bullying. 

I’ve heard the phrase, “Wanna make a friend quick? Have a common enemy.” … well I’m here to tell you those people suck. Why bond over hate, when you can bond over things you love! Do that, and watch the world change around you. :)

More on the experiment coming soon…

#GOTEAM

Negative thoughts are like bad hair days. You can dwell on em and complain, or just put that shit in a messy bun and move on! #GOTEAM

Negative thoughts are like bad hair days. You can dwell on em and complain, or just put that shit in a messy bun and move on! #GOTEAM

Be someones Juice Box. 

Be someones Juice Box. 

THE BIGGEST LESSON I’VE EVER LEARNED…  

THE BIGGEST LESSON I’VE EVER LEARNED…  

Hey everyone!  
Just wanted to post this slutty photo to remind you all I have an awesome ass and great boobs. 
If you could do me a solid and “Like” it that’d be awesome cause it’ll feed my ego for another day and let me know that that guy from my past made a BIG mistake in letting me go, cause like, look how many people on the internet want to fuck me!

And, if you’re in a middle eastern country where you won’t let your women show their hair let alone look at the internet, be sure to SUPER LIKE this pic because nothing says your religious rules are bullshit some insecure asshole made up like a good showing of hypocrisy. 

And, parents who see this and think, “Man I never want my daughter to take pics like that” while you stuff them into a career they hate just so you’ll give them the love that is SUPPOSED to be unconditional…. Let’s pretend this in one of those “causes” you care so much about on Facebook that you hit “Like” and never think about it again.  

To the teens who see this and think. “man I wish I looked like that then I’d get that guy I like!”  You’re right to want that, and you will.  He will fucking LOVE you…r ass, and boobs.  And I sure hope your ass and titty titties have been working on their communication skills cause it’s all he’s gonna look at when he talks to you!  So please, hit “Like.”

Oh, and girls who don’t feel good about their bodies so post little boxes with words about how beautiful they are on the inside wondering why they don’t have a man, aren’t happy, and spend the days hating on EVERYTHING ON GODS GREEN EARTH.  Please do take a moment from eating your real feelings to report this photo as inappropriate because we all know bodies are taboo but people being blown to pieces in on the 6 o’clock news, tv shows based on gruesome crimes,  and harassing celebs till they end up with a drug problem about to crack that you then use to make MORE fun of them, are A-OK. 

ANNNNNNNNNDDDDD, If you haven’t liked this by now and have ever peed in a pool, you should like it too… for not being a liar.  :)

#GOTEAM

Hey everyone!  

Just wanted to post this slutty photo to remind you all I have an awesome ass and great boobs. 
If you could do me a solid and “Like” it that’d be awesome cause it’ll feed my ego for another day and let me know that that guy from my past made a BIG mistake in letting me go, cause like, look how many people on the internet want to fuck me!
And, if you’re in a middle eastern country where you won’t let your women show their hair let alone look at the internet, be sure to SUPER LIKE this pic because nothing says your religious rules are bullshit some insecure asshole made up like a good showing of hypocrisy. 
And, parents who see this and think, “Man I never want my daughter to take pics like that” while you stuff them into a career they hate just so you’ll give them the love that is SUPPOSED to be unconditional…. Let’s pretend this in one of those “causes” you care so much about on Facebook that you hit “Like” and never think about it again.  
To the teens who see this and think. “man I wish I looked like that then I’d get that guy I like!”  You’re right to want that, and you will.  He will fucking LOVE you…r ass, and boobs.  And I sure hope your ass and titty titties have been working on their communication skills cause it’s all he’s gonna look at when he talks to you!  So please, hit “Like.”
Oh, and girls who don’t feel good about their bodies so post little boxes with words about how beautiful they are on the inside wondering why they don’t have a man, aren’t happy, and spend the days hating on EVERYTHING ON GODS GREEN EARTH.  Please do take a moment from eating your real feelings to report this photo as inappropriate because we all know bodies are taboo but people being blown to pieces in on the 6 o’clock news, tv shows based on gruesome crimes,  and harassing celebs till they end up with a drug problem about to crack that you then use to make MORE fun of them, are A-OK. 
ANNNNNNNNNDDDDD, If you haven’t liked this by now and have ever peed in a pool, you should like it too… for not being a liar.  :)

#GOTEAM

***A lesson on #DISARM… let’s talk about my MMVA dress hateration. :)***

Let’s start with I FREAKING LOVED MY MMVA DRESS!!!! WOOO!!!

I teamed up with Stylist Box and designer MAYBE by Catalfo and we made that specially for me just for the MMVA’s. :) 

At our meetings I said, I’d love 1 part cheer Barbie, 1 part Toddler n Tiara, and 1 part Katy Perry’s more cutesy bright blonde sister…and boobs.   Wiiiith my new #GOTEAM bow  …and that is TOTALLY what I got!!! 

I am #GOTEAM, so a remixed cheer Barbie uniform, is just like #DUH. I love the Toddler dresses, they are cute as hell.  I love Katy Perry’s stylist Johnny Wujek who created her all her looks, and the designers the Blonds who have made her most famous fashions.  And boobs are fun sometimes! 

So here comes the disarm lesson: I KNEW that when I rocked EXACTLY what I wanted to there would be haters.  Haters gonna hate.  … but the funny part is I out smarted them before we started!  OMG you look like a Toddler in a Tiara… Ya.. I know!  Awesome eh!

OMG, what is that like cheerleader Barbie!  YAY!!!!!  That’s what we were going for!

Who does she think she is Katy Perry’s sister?   Wooo hooo!!! Winning!  

Holy cow, so much boob… MUAH HA HA HA!!!! I KNOOOOOOWWWWWW!!! If I wasn’t taped in I woulda popped out! lol. 

The point is, you know shade when people are throwing it, so why not just do what cha want, say what they are gonna first, and #DISARM those bully bitches. :)  It’s what Eminem did to win the rap battle in 8 Mile and it ALWAYS works.  The “ya I know… and???” method. 

Thanks so much to everyone who helped me create my fave red carpet look so far!  Can’t wait to show you what we have next in store! 

#GOTEAM,

Nicole

PS: #GOTEAM bows available NOW on www.nicolearbour.com/shop :)

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